You don't have to figure it all out alone
Whether you're dealing with another upsetting message from your ex, worrying about money, facing a difficult decision or simply trying to get through the day, there are times when you need someone who understands and can help you find your footing.
That's why The Separation Club exists. Real conversations, practical guidance and personal support when you need it. Wherever you are in your separation or divorce, you are welcome here.
The end of a marriage can leave you questioning everything. Your decisions, your future, your confidence and sometimes even who you are. You may feel relieved one day and completely overwhelmed the next. There is no single way to experience separation or divorce, and no timeline you have to follow.
Whatever brought you here, you're welcome. You don't need to have the answers, know what comes next or even feel ready to move forward. You just need somewhere to begin.





When a marriage ends, it can feel like everything you thought you knew about your life has changed. There are so many questions, so many emotions and sometimes an overwhelming need to understand what happened. You find yourself telling the story again and again, hoping that eventually something will make sense or someone will tell you that you're going to be okay.
I know that place, and I also know how much difference it makes to have someone who understands, listens without judgment and helps you see things from another perspective. That's what The Separation Club is about. Not rushing you through your feelings or telling you to get over it, but helping you navigate what's happening today, one situation and one decision at a time.
A message from your ex. A letter from your lawyer. News that he's seeing someone else. An upcoming mediation, a difficult conversation about the children, or another weekend when the loneliness feels especially heavy.
You can be doing reasonably well, and then something happens that brings all the uncertainty and emotion rushing back. Sometimes you need a few minutes to steady yourself. Sometimes you need to talk something through with someone who understands and can help you see the situation differently.
That's why having somewhere to turn matters.


A message from your ex. A letter from your lawyer. News that he's seeing someone else. An upcoming mediation, a difficult conversation about the children, or another weekend when the loneliness feels especially heavy.
You can be doing reasonably well, and then something happens that brings all the uncertainty and emotion rushing back. Sometimes you need a few minutes to steady yourself. Sometimes you need to talk something through with someone who understands and can help you see the situation differently.
That's why having somewhere to turn matters.

I'm the founder of The Separation Club, a coach and a woman who knows firsthand how deeply separation and divorce can change your life. After 20 years of marriage, I discovered my husband's long-term affair while raising four sons. I know the confusion, the fear and the feeling of suddenly having to figure out a future you never planned for.
Over the years, I've helped women navigate everything from heartbreak and loneliness to difficult decisions, financial fears and rebuilding their confidence. My approach is compassionate, but it's also practical and direct. I'll listen, I'll be honest with you, and I'll help you look at what's happening from a perspective that makes it easier to decide what to do next.

The Separation Club was the lifeline I needed when everything felt impossible. And working with Elisabeth gave me the tools I never even knew existed and is the reason that I finally stopped crying every day. Thank you!!
Cathy R.

Forever grateful that I met you and I honestly have to say that despite the circumstances, this is the best club I have ever been part of. Amazing support and new understanding friends. Just what my healing soul needed.
Eva M.

Your podcasts and videos have helped me so much. I was in a place of complete sorrow and now have had a complete turnaround and am even smiling for the first time in ages. My daughter just said to me "mommy is happy". I am so grateful for your dedication to helping us through this difficult time.
Carolyn P.
Whether you're at the very beginning of separation, somewhere in the middle of divorce, or finding that life afterward still has its difficult moments, there's a place for you here.
Come as you are. We'll start with what's happening today.
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